Some parents just can have 1 kid or they just want one kid.
And there will always be some people who makes "jokes"about it that you have 1 kid.
In the past when you were an only child you were often labeled as spoiled or not social.
Now these days we will not hear the things you could have said in the past.
Some people just don't want to have another child, or they could not have another one. So before you will hurt someones feelings read this.
And just don't say those things like:
"Our first child was living completely when he heard that she had a brother or sister."
But why is he so jealous at his birthday?
"Would it be nice to have a little brother or sister for him?"
Just don't you don't know if he will be happy with it.
"And? When comes the second one?"
Second one? I never have thought about it. I just don't want to think about it.
"So let's say, nice and quiet!"
Well with three kids it is pretty busy. But my kid counts for three!
"Don't he feel alone?"
No, he plays with his friends a lot and he can't be bullied by his younger sister.
"With one kid you are pretty flexible?"
And you just don't know that before?
"Look at you, you've got your old figure back. With a second one it will be different"
What do we hear? complain? I know mothers with 3 children with a nice fit body. So off you go to the gym!
"Aaaaah, a second one is so fun!"
I know it is, but whe aren't blessed like you guys!
You just can't look in someones agenda if they are planning to have another one. More parents thinks that one child will be enough these days. Let everyone in its value and enjoy his life.
I really want 2kids. I hope we are blessed to have another one one day. But first I will enjoy my little baby girl. 16weeks allready today!
