What men want.

Sometimes we think we know what men want.
But what do they really want?
Volkskrant Magazine recently did research on the ideal of beauty among 3500 Dutch men between 18 and 85 years.
This is what came out:

Intelligence is the most important trait in a woman
53% Of men surveyed 'intelligence' in the top three.
That we must be a loving wife (51%) is a close second. Cheerful (36%), independent (33%) and humor (31%) .

High heels are not attractive
We all think that high heels are very attractive. Well we're thinking it wrong.
Older men are slightly milder in it. As many as 79% of men aged up to 39 years think stilettos simply are not pretty. Let the heels at home, sneakers are more popular.

Say bye to sexy lingerie
Men older than 25 years think sexy lingerie is not necessary for woman to wear.
Well hello: Suprise. I did not see that coming.
In the age under the 25year men will see woman wrapped all up in a sexy lingerie.
When surveyed men over forty years, say more than two thirds that a Hema-slip is ok .
Shocking !!

Pumped tits are out
The men used to be lyrical about the huge inflated tits of Pamela Anderson, today scored a good B-cup better. Well and I was thinking: the bigger the better hahaha.
50% of the participating men chose a B-cup and 44% for a C-cup.

No breasts - or booty men, but eye-men
Are you a breast or booty men is the most asked question to men.
And their answer?
As many as 31% of respondents said "Eyes" when being asked about the woman's favorite body part.

What men want more?
Preference is given to a partner of approximately 6 years younger. Also the fact that men prefer a "natural woman" than a full primed Barbie doll, also remains true.
63% of the men prefer to see her woman in less make up.
Finally, cosmetic procedures are a no-go area, as well as pubic hair and wrinkles.

So we can safely conclude that you do not need too much showing off yourself to win a man for you.
They are happy with the simple thing. So wear a Hema underwear, shave yourself and wear less make up and that must be it.

source: verboden voor mannen.net

Dear " toothfairy"

Children are honest gold and when they find out if some myth are bull they don't feel ashamed to say it.
That's why that the 9 year old Lexi wrote a letter to the "toothfairy".
Her dad found her letter on her pillow and posted this on reddit.

How cute is this?

Lara Stone naked in a magazine without photoshop

Eighteen months after giving birth the Dutch supermodel Lara Stone stand naked in System Magazine with beautifull unedited pictures.
She will show the world that also she after giving birth don't have a thight tummy.

Completely unedited photos in a fashion magazine are very rare.
That at those pictures a woman is showing her post-birth body is even rarer.
Juergen Teller photographed Lara Stone for System Magazine, in a beautiful, fragile and recognizable way.

Lara poses in Calvin Klein underwear, a brand for which she has long been a model.
However, her body as seen in this shoot, it would be significantly modified for an underwear campaign.
In System we see stretch marks, under eye circles, wrinkles, dry skin, flesh that actually moves...
The reality in an era where Photoshop is not indispensable.
It's not often you see that this flavor or sexiness, presented in this way.

What do you think of the unedited pictures of Lara Stone?
I think it's bave of her to show her body like this. It's the reality and it's beautifull.
Everybody is perfect in her own way. And don't let your mind fool you because what you see is edited with photoshop.

Source: Jan Magazine

mom with tats

Sometimes people ask me if I don't regret my tattoos now because I'm a mom.
And well tomorrow I will get another tattoo for my sweet baby girl so I thought it would be time to tell something about it.

That you have tattoos does not mean you are a lousy parent. Don't judge a book by his cover!

I love everything what I've added on my body, for me it has a meaning.

It's a story of my live how I lived my life what I think.

But from the tattoos I've get I get equally as many smiles and conversations with people I may not otherwise spoken to. And those seemling rude stares are often just coming from a place of admiration or curiosity. But I don't care, stare if you like, whisper to your friend.

And I think my tats or not that bad. I can hide them if I really want.

If you decide to get a tattoo in a visibale place, people will look and people will judge.

Society don't accept 100% tattooed people.

And tattooed moms? It's a bad example for your kids... I think that's bullshit!

It's not how you look like or how many tattoos you've got, it's how you raise your children and your beauty from within.

Ofcourse you can think about it what will happen to your career if I place a tattoo on a visible place.

If you're lucky you get a job where they are open minded.

Sometimes I think it's weird that tattoos are still not done on a work place.

Everyboy now a days have tattoos.

 

But that's my opinion.
What do you think to get tatoos? And moms with tats: done or not done?

Let me know!

Breastfeeding pic gets more hate than Kim's butt.

Actress Allysa Milano had her baby girl Elizabella Dylan Bulgari last September. She's very proud of her baby girl and posted a phote of her breastfeeding her on instagram.

Bur the pictures of Kim Kardashians naked body "break the internet" are also a big hit on the internet.

Milano noted that she wears a shirt on her selfie and she gets a ton of backlash while critics seems fine by Kim's oily naked booty.

She tweeted:

I think it's weird that when people put a naked "sexy" photo of them selfs on the internet is all ok. And while you are breastfeeding your baby. What is the most natural and beautifull thing there is is all bad and should not be shown on the internet.

No offence about Kim's picture but if that's beautifull so is breastfeeding your own child. 

What do you think?

Can you show breastfeeding pictures on the internet or is it a no go?

Gingerbread cubes, ginger nuts, spice nuts healthy!

Our lovely Saint is in our country today!

Time to put our shoe in front of the chimney and get some presents, well only if you are good.

Or else you go in the bag and go to Spain to help the Saint for next year.

Well I don't know if that's bad. It's raining here and maybe there is it all sunny.

But back to basic. Since August the first gingerbread cubes, spice nuts, ginger nuts or what ever you will call our Dutch Saint Nicolas sweet treat are in the store. I love those treats a lot but it's not that healthy.

I've made specially for this Holiday a healthy ginger, spice nut cookie.

You can eat a lot more of these then of the store version.

But eat it in moderation. 

This is also a fun recipe to make with your kids!

This recipe is lactose free, there are no refined sugars and no wheat.

Enjoy!!!

 What you need:

120 gram spelled flour

80 gram almond flour

60 gram coconut blossom sugar

5tbsp gingerbread spice

5tbsp liquid coconut oil

2tbsp soy milk

1/4 tsp salt

5drops vanilla extract

Preheat the oven on 180degrees.

Mix both the flour, coconut blossom sugar and spice and salt together.

Add the coconut oil and vanilla extract to it and mix again.

At last add the milk to it and knead it into a ball.

Make small balls out of it and flat it a little.

Put this on a ovenplate.

Put this in the oven for about 20minutes till they are nice and brown.

They will be a little bit soft when they come out of the oven but if you let them cool down a bit they will get hard.

You can keep them for a week in a closed bin.

Pork oyster in red wine

Hello mommies, mommy to be's, fitties and other people.

Vacation is over, we had a great time with the three of us. But more about that later in another blog.

Today we came back and I decided to make a beautifull dish with pork oyster.

It's not to hard to make this and it's oh yummie!!!

I serve the pork oyster with cooked carrots, peas and aspergus.

And some mashed potatoes.

I cooked them smashed them add some milk and basil to it and stirr it all together.

The pork oyster is another story.

What you need:

Red wine 250ml

2pieces of pork oyster

Pepper/salt

Smashed garlic

Onion sliced

First I bake the pork oyster for 5minutes with the garlic pepper and salt.

For the other 5minutes I add the red wine, let it cook.

After the 5minuted I add the onion and bake for another 3minutes.

And now you're done.

Serve this with your mashed potatoes cooked carrots, peas and aspergus. 

An after vacation meal!

Smakelijk eten, bon apetit!

Asian pumpkinsoup

Do you like pumpkinsoup with an extra spice? I do.

Specialy now it's colder, me with a fever I love soup with something extra.

So before we are going to vacation I will share my asian pumpkinsoup recipe!

Enjoy...

Needings:

2 teaspoons coconut oil
1 onion, diced
4 garlic cloves, minced
2 cups pumpkin, peeled and small diced
2 cups vegetable broth
2 cups of coconut milk
1 bay leaf
¼ teaspoon dried thyme
2 tablespoons red curry paste
½ teaspoon nutmeg
sea salt and pepper     

In a pot, heat coconut oil over medium heat. 

Add the onions, garlic and pumpkin and cook 4-5 minutes. 

Add the stock, coconut milk, bay leaf, thyme and curry paste and cook for 15-20 minutes. 

Take off the heat, remove the bay leaf and puree with an immersion blender or regular blender. 

Place back on the stove and add the nutmeg and season with salt and pepper. 

Heat until warmed through.

Asian chickensoup

The flu has control over my body for a week now! 

I feel misserable, tired, pain everywhere and the coughing damn I sound like a seal.

But when I'm sick I love to eat soup.

Well it's the only thing I eat then.

Full with veggies and some spice. 

Today I've made an asian chickensoup. I have made one before but this one I made all by myself. Copyright to me !!!

Ow and the taste is better then it looks like on the pictures.

What you need is:

250ml coconutmilk

250ml chickenbroth

Eggsprouts

Celery chopped

Leek chopped

Diced chicken

Smashed garlic

Pepper and salt

Sambal

Egg noodles

First I'll bake the chicken with some salt and pepper and smashed garlic till they are brown.

Place that on the side.

Add the chickenbroth and coconutmilk in a stockpot and let it boil.

Add the smashed garlic and sambal stirt well. Add the celery, leek and egg sprouts to it and the egg noodles. If the egg noodles are fineshed add the chicken to it.

Let it cook for a minute and voila your fitmomslife chickensoup asian style is ready to serve!

Indonesian kale recipe

Belandas know how to make a real Dutch dish with kale.

We're famous off the kale stamp (smashed potatoes with kale served with smoked sausage or bacon)

But me as an Indo knows that people from Indonesia can make great stuff with kale also.

It's nice and spicy served with rice.

Today I will give you this Indonesian kale recipe. 

Terima kasih kembali!

What you need:

300g smoked bacon diced 

3 large chopped onion 

2 cloves garlic 

500g Kale 

1 tablespoon sambal Oelek 

2 cubes chicken broth

pandan rice 

cucumber

First bake the bacon on high heat in his own fat till cracklings.

Then add the onions and garlic, stir continuely, add a little olive oil and sambal to it.

Then stir the kale through it.

Finally add a cup of water with the cubes chicken broth to it.

Leave the lid on the pan and simmet on a low heat for 45 minutes.

Prepare the rice and cut the cucumber in pieces.

Serve the kale mixture with the rice and cucumber.

Selamat Makan!